In her latest Substack article, Saturn's Daughter examines the metaphors of the mirror and the window, relating them to her own life experience and suggesting what a good balance would be, closing with the following conclusion:
The ‘Mirror and Window’ principle is not a tool for judgement, or fixing “others”. It’s really a lens for clarity, to help us ask ourselves the more important questions:
The mirror asks:
What is mine to own?
The window asks:
What is mine to acknowledge?
The work lies in the space between the two.
True self-awareness isn’t either/or, but the dance between internal truth and external reality.

